When you go dildo shopping the most important this that is important is to choose the right one for you. And if you are new on this journey, this can be a bit confusing and overwhelming because the adult market is full of options. You get many different sizes, girth, shapes, textures, materials so on. So, how do you know which is the right pick for you?
This question can’t be explained in a single line because there is so much to explain. To pick your perfect dildo, your perfect companion you need to have some information about the dildos. And the things to look for. So, let’s start with every little important information you need to observe while buying one.
Things to notice while buying a dildo:
Below is the list of everything you have to check in a dildo before buying it. These are the deciding factor for your pleasure. So, start gliding through them one by one.
1. Material
While buying a dildo it is the very first thing you have to notice. If you are an old reader then in almost all of my blogs I focus a lot on the toy material because it is related to your health. If you buy a toxic material then this can be a potential threat to your health.
While buying a sex toy, consider buying a sex toy made of: Silicone, wood, stainless steel, and Borosilicate Glass. If you want a soft or realistic toy then it should be made of silicone. And if you need a hard toy then the other materials recommended above will do the work.
There are still many materials that are used to make sex toys but they are generally porous in nature. Porous materials are those materials that are not possible to be cleaned 100%. So, they trap bacteria inside and can lead to potential harm to your body.
Note: Never buy a sex toy that has Phthalates in it. Phthalate is a very harmful chemical compound that is used to make a toy softer. But it is extremely dangerous for your health and your body.
2. Size
While buying a dildo you have to pick the right size for yourself. Because if you pick the smaller one then it will not be satisfying and if you buy too big then this can be uncomfortable or painful. So, check the right size for you and then buy the correct dildo.
3. Girth
Many people believe that the girth is more important than the length to satisfy a woman. But it varies from person to person. Some women like the feeling of getting stretched then the girth are essential for them. And some love to feel the thing deep inside then the length becomes more important for them. So, what is more important, it depends on you.
Note: If you have no idea about the perfect length and girth for your dildo then keep reading the blog. Below I will show you a way to check the ideal length and girth you can handle.
4. Shape
Shapes are one of the important elements that can change the whole experience. Different shapes are not just for looks. These shapes are also responsible for targeting the G-spots and P-spots. So, that you can experience an intense amount of pleasure. So, if you love stimulating your right spot then you can consider buying a curved dildo.
5. Texture
Now, what do I texture mean? Here I am referring to the extra bumps and grooves on a dildo. The extra bumps and groves make the dildo even more pleasing. But only for experienced users. So, if you are a beginner then it is not recommended to buy such dildos.
6. Features
While buying a dildo features is one thing that must be checked once. There are many different features that can make a huge impact on your pleasure. Vibration is one of those. If your dildo is a vibrating dildo then it has much more power than a regular dildo. These vibrating technologies can make you mad. So, give it a shot if you wanna feel something different.
Another one is firmness. How firm or hard do you want? Some dildos are very flexible, some are firm, and some are both flexible and firm. So, it all depends on someone’s choice of what she likes. So, what you like is all up to you.
7. Purpose
Now the final point but most important while you are buying a dildo. Why are you buying this dildo? What is your purpose? You have to be clear about this what you expect from this dildo. This way it will be easier to choose the perfect one for you.
Some women buy a dildo for blowjob training, some get one for penetration, some for anal and some use these toys for almost all. So, what do you expect from it? Clear this in your mind so you can finalize your companion very easily.
Note: Never use a single dildo for blowjob and penetration both. And keep a separate dildo for anal. But, if you want to use a single dildo for everything then try using condoms over your dildo. This is a good practice to be safe and healthy.
How to choose the right girth and size for your dildo?
Choosing the right size and girth for your dildo is very important. If you choose the smaller or slicker one then this will not please you much and can be frustrating. And if you buy a very big size or girthy dildo then this can be a painful experience. So, it is very important to choose the right size.
But what if you don’t know the correct size to get one? How do you know it?
For that, you can take the reference of a penis you have experienced before. If you had got penetrated by someone before then you can take that as a reference for your correct size. An average human penis has a diameter of 1.5 inches. So, you can take it as a reference to buy your dildo.
While considering the length. Don’t buy too big or too small. Because if you use it with a strap-on then this can be a bit inconvenient.
Now you may be thinking…Hey, But what if have no experience with any penetration? Then how will I choose the correct girth and size?
When you have never experienced any penetration, means you are a complete beginner. It is always recommended to go with something less in diameter as a beginner. An ideal diameter for a beginner would be 1″ inches. If you are very concerned about the penetration then go for 0.75″ and if you are very confident that you can handle a bit big then you can go up to 1.25″.
But don’t go more than that. Because as a beginner you have to take it slow and smooth. If you need a beginner dildo then these beginner dildos would be great for you.
Tip: Lubes are your biggest friend when you are about to experience penetration. Especially when you are a beginner, it helps in a smooth glide. So, get a good lube and enjoy your personal moment.
