Are you still a Virgin if you have used a Dildo? The Real Truth.

Virginity is a big concern among all the youths. Whether it be a male or a female, everyone is concerned about their virginity in their way. So, in that scenario, if you are a girl who has never experienced any sexual feeling then this question can hit your mind. Will you still be a virgin if you have used a dildo? Or, will you lose it?

My answer to this question is:

It is all up to your definition of virginity. If you think that having any sort of sexual act is losing virginity then you are not a virgin anymore. And, if virginity means having sex with a man then Yes, you are still a virgin girl.

I know my answer is a bit confusing. But, let me give you an explanation to support my answer. The reason, why I have given such a confusing answer. Before knowing whether you are still a virgin or not first we need to know what this term is? 🤔

What does the term Virginity refers to?

The dictionary meaning of the term virginity means never having sexual intercourse. But is it that simple? I mean if this is the call, then I have a ton of queries.

Virginity is a concept that has been introduced by humans 5000 or 10000 years ago. And there is no exact biological definition for this. Some believe that this term was introduced by men to control women and some believe that the term was defined by women themselves to support their purity.

I don’t know who invented this and why? But there is one sure thing that it is just a thought that we have believed for years. And we all have a different definition for this.

Some believe that if you have sex with a man then this will be considered losing your virginity. But does that mean a woman who experiences sexual pleasure with a woman or a sex toy is a virgin? And what about oral sex or anal sex? Will these acts be considered as non-virginity-breaking acts?

Some believe that the breaking of the hymen in the vagina while having sex is termed as the loss of virginity. Then what about those girls who are born without a hymen. And in some cases, hymen completely covers the vaginal hole that needs to go through the surgical processes.

And what about those conditions where hymen breaks while doing some physical activities like cycling, sports, or some other physical work. Does that mean they have lost their virginity without having any sexual activity? I don’t think that the hymen thing fits the virginity definition.

Note: Hymen is a small fleshy convering at the opening of the vagina that are meant to protect one’s vagina from being exposed to the outer world. They contain a hole that allows the blood flow during menstrual cycle. Hymen can have many different shapes and sizes.

types if hymen e1643970937970 — Credit: Dreamstime

So, the final ask. What is virginity? My suggested answer is, it is a thought made by some people years ago that we all are still carrying. And it is all up to you whether you believe it or not. If you don’t wanna believe this then that’s fine.

But if you still wanna believe it then make your definition and be happy with this. No confusions. It is yours and it should be your choice whether you wanna lose it or be with it. So, don’t be stressed about this.

Have you lost your virginity if you have used a dildo?

So, now is the exact reason why you are reading this blog. Have you lost your virginity if you have used a dildo? The answer is up to you. You decide, are you a virgin or not? 🤨

If you have read the above section then you already know your answer. Hope now you have a clear idea about your issue. 😊

Is It Safe For A Virgin To Use A Dildo?

Hey, we have discussed the question you came herewith. And think it is clear for you now. If you have asked this question because you are about to try a dildo then there is one more question that will hit your mind. Is it safe to use a dildo when you are a virgin? (Or, I say never had a penetration)

So, the answer is “Yes” and “No”.

If you chose a dildo that is very big for you then this can be a huge problem. It can be very painful.

But, if you get a right-sized dildo then this can be a pleasing experience for you. And always remember to use a sex lube while inserting a sex toy. Because it reduces friction and gives you a pleasant feeling.

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When you are a first-timer then it becomes a bit difficult to choose your first dildo. At first, you have no idea about what to check and whatnot. So, I will not explain a lot about in this blog, what to choose and what not. If you wanna know then you should check our first-time dildo blog where you will find everything in detail. You will also get my best recommendation there.

Right now if you wanna buy a dildo for the first time, then I will give you my best 3 recommendations. These are the best first choice dildos when you are planning to start exploring your own body. So, give one a try.

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