When it comes to sex, deeper connections can often lead to heightened pleasure. But if you’re looking to take your intimacy to the next level, it’s all about finding positions that allow for deep penetration.
These positions don’t just get the job done—they can transform the experience into something intimate, intense, and oh-so-satisfying. Trust me, I’ve been there, and I’ve learned a lot along the way. (Spoiler alert: some lessons were a little too hands-on… literally.)
In this guide, we’re going to break down five incredible deep penetration positions that’ll bring you and your partner closer while turning up the pleasure. Each one offers something unique, whether it’s a new angle, a deeper connection, or just a chance to try something out of the norm (don’t worry,
I’ll be honest about when I’ve totally botched these positions—yes, that’s happened). Let’s dive in and explore how to make your next sexual encounter more intense, satisfying, and… you know, less awkward than when I tried the Flying V for the first time. (I still have the bruises to prove it.)
1. Flying V Position
Step-by-Step:
- Start on your back. Get cozy and lie down comfortably.
- Partner kneels between your legs. They’ll grab one of your ankles in each hand and spread your legs wide apart.
- Assist with the positioning. If you’re feeling extra helpful (or like a yoga instructor), hold your legs yourself so your partner can use their hands for more thrusting leverage.
- Let the thrusting begin. With your legs wide, the angle will allow for deep penetration. They’ll thrust, and you’ll both enjoy the rhythm.
Pros:
- Super simple! You don’t need complicated choreography.
- Allows for deep penetration and great thrusting leverage.
- Perfect for spontaneous moments when you don’t have time to set up an elaborate scene.
Cons:
- The angle can be a bit awkward if your legs aren’t flexible or if you’re not properly supported.
- You may need to adjust the pillows to find the perfect angle, especially if you’re a bit of a “back pain” survivor.
2. The G-Whiz Position
Step-by-Step:
- Lie down on your back. Bring your legs up in the air. Your partner will kneel in front of you.
- Rest your legs on their shoulders. The G-Whiz position is all about flexibility, so make sure you’re stretching beforehand (trust me, your hamstrings will thank you).
- Partner leans forward. Your partner leans into you, causing your hips to lift and your legs to come back towards you. This deepens the penetration.
- Adjust for comfort. If you want to feel more stable, place your soles on your partner’s chest instead. It’ll still give you that deep penetration but with less stretch on your legs.
Pros:
- It provides intense deep penetration.
- Great for G-spot stimulation (if you’re into that).
- Flexible enough to switch up the position based on comfort.
Cons:
- Requires flexibility. If you’re not someone who can put your legs up over your head (like me), it may not be super comfortable at first.
Lesson learned: Stretching is more than just a pre-workout thing!
3. Butterfly Position
Step-by-Step:
- Position yourself at the edge of the bed. Lie on your back with your bum right at the edge (this gives your partner more access).
- Lift your legs. Have your partner lift your hips, so your legs rest on their shoulders.
- Get comfortable with deep penetration. Your partner will stand in front of you and begin thrusting. The angle allows for deep penetration while letting you look into each other’s eyes.
- Add clitoral stimulation. You can use a vibrator or toy to bring in more pleasure. If your partner’s hands are busy, use a couple’s toy that stimulates both of you.
Pros:
- Deep penetration + eye contact = a recipe for a sexy experience.
- You can add extra clitoral stimulation with toys.
- The view is great! (No one told me how fun it would be to actually see each other’s faces).
Cons:
- Your partner has to be in pretty good shape to lift your legs like that for long periods.
- You’ll feel a little like you’re on a personal seesaw if they’re not strong enough to keep you balanced.
4. The Love Seat Position
Step-by-Step:
- Have your partner sit on the couch. Have them sit towards the edge of the seat for easier access.
- You straddle your partner. Sit in their lap facing them, with one knee on each side of their body.
- Partner inserts. You’ll begin rocking in their lap, adjusting the depth of penetration as you go.
- Get extra leverage. Use the back of the couch or your partner’s shoulders to steady yourself as you move.
Pros:
- Super comfy if you love couch sex (who doesn’t?).
- Deep penetration when your partner is at the edge of the couch.
- Great for intimate closeness, kissing, and more.
Cons:
- Limited movement. You’re a bit stuck in a single area, and there’s not much room for those extra exploratory moves.
- If your couch is too soft or too firm, you might feel like you’re sitting in an uncomfortable position, but that’s just trial and error.
5. Turtle Position
Step-by-Step:
- Get on your hands and knees. Start with your knees together and your chest close to your thighs.
- Tuck into yourself. Pull your knees up to your chest, creating a “turtle” shape. This tightens everything, giving a deeper sensation.
- Partner kneels behind you. Your partner will enter from behind and thrust. The deep penetration angle comes from the close contact.
- Optional cock ring vibrator. Slip a cock ring on your partner to add some extra pleasure, especially for your perineum (that sweet spot).
Pros:
- Great for deep penetration, regardless of size.
- Provides that “close-contact” feel, which I personally love.
- Allows for some fun positioning of the hips that can make everything feel a bit more intense.
Cons:
- If you’re not careful, your partner may end up going too deep (and I learned that the hard way, let’s just say the “oops” was mutual).
- Not the best position if you need to keep the rhythm going—it’s easy for your partner to get tired of holding the position.
